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problem financial!

everyday of our life we need money… as a seaman’s wife everybody believe that we earn dollars and we a lots of  money. yes if your husband is official but like mine he’s just a Able Seaman. he only earn the extra of the official and his salary is taking care of 3 high school, 1 grade school and a 4 year old them allotment i receive is not enough to have a saving because we started with depth before he started working. since we married in our early age he is still studying and all our expensive is not free for our parents then when he started to work we already live with our own and we have no saving that’s why we borrowed money to the lending and people that we though was helping us but no their taking for granted our wickedness. they lend us money but we are oblige to pay them 20% interest until such that all the salary of my husband is not enough even to our food and necessity. and then we again borrow to another person with 10% until such time that i wake up nothing left for me and my family. that why my husband went home without money left in his pocket but only 200$. maybe other people don’t understand my situation because they are not in my situation. but I’m praying that our government will give us a chance to be heard and help us with those people that are thinking they are helping us but not they are taking us for granted. like me i have no shopping habit i was use to stay at hope that’s why i open this blog site to let the seaman’s wife peak up and to be heard i need you to make our voice mo louder with the help of this blog. come open your interest with our problem financially to those who are doing their best to save their family…

xmas party of the seaferer’s

they look happy but actually they are just pretending to be…

the journey of our husband…

my husband went to his job last April 2010 and his contract is 9 months now he is coming home and we are so excited… but as a seaman’s wife its really a hard job being a father and mother to our children but we kept on doing what is right and best for our children. often we have trails and burdens that we just solve it by our selves and they let them know when its already finish. because we avoid giving them worries on their jobs. sometimes we think its so unfair because we handle our life without them since we want them to be safe and out of destruction, since then we are use of solving our problem and facing it all alone without their knowledge… so in return sometimes other seaman’s wife is being blame of the things that is happening to them.. no question but always answer to other seafarers i means judgment that’s why theirs a trouble behind a wife and a husband.. maybe all i can say i was blessed of having a  understanding husband.. but go back to the other side of a seafarers they are just being judgmental and sometimes they end up of solution that could ruined their life…  if you are a seaman wife what can you contribute to those who is still starting there life…